The more they ask me about what to do in a given situation, the more clearly I understand that I seem to have a universal recipe with an answer to almost any question and request. Everything is simple and complicated at the same time.
Having problems with your husband? Get away from your husband! Stop trying to change him, stop fighting him in order to seek justice. Stop thinking that replacing a partner can solve the problem - this is an illusion.
Take care of yourself! Get to know yourself better, get closer to yourself, so that you feel good when you are in your own company, learn not to demand happiness from your husband, become a source of happiness for your loved ones.
Study yourself, develop, build spiritual practice, so as not to need love, not to walk with outstretched hand begging for love.
Having problems with your parents? Get away from your parents! Stop being offended by them, stop getting angry, stop proving anything to them. Stop lingering on your old grievances, stop having grudges. Take care of yourself! Find your way in this world and go for it. Not in everyone's spite, not for someone's joy, but simply because you want it. And in order to do this you need to figure out what is it exactly that you want, what is it that your soul craves. It is better to engage in such self-knowledge than to continue to focus on your parents and their opinions.
Having problems with your children? Get away from the kids! Stop nagging, stop correcting them, stop trying to make the right people out of them, creating their future. Stop comparing them with other kids, stop measuring their success with your own success. Remember that they do not belong to you, you are only their temporary stronghold. Take care of yourself! Become the person your children would like to see in about 20 years. So that you would not be ashamed of yourself and your life.
Go for your dreams, even if you think it’s too late, without putting your dreams on the shoulders of your children. And let them go their own way.
Having problems with marriage? Get away from the obsession with a wedding dress and a ring. Take care of yourself! Become the woman that only you want to become. Learn to be happy now - even without a ring on your finger.
Start an affair with yourself so that you feel so good with yourself that time flies by so quickly. Do not look for a soul mate, be holistic and lively. Real and sincere.
Having problems with your mother-in-law? Get away from your mother in law! Stop competing with her, stop trying to prove who is "cooler", who is more important, whom he loves more. Stop proving to her that you are a good and worthy person. Do not seek her love. Take care of yourself! Grow inner maturity - show gratitude to the one who raised your man, so as not to be offended by her and not expect anything special. Have the courage to remain herself.
Having problems finding a job? Give up the idea of finding it at any cost as quickly as possible. Take care of yourself. Follow your heart. Not because of money, but because your heart feels happy. Have the courage to be yourself again, despite the noise of other people's opinions and social rules. Do what you love. Try, look for what you love, what you like. Look for what you have talents and inclinations.
Having problems with yourself? Take care of yourself, finally! Do not push responsibility for your life onto your husband, parents, circumstances and karma.
Have the courage to honestly look into your heart to see the huge treasures there, covered with a huge layer of dust and dirt. Start cleaning it step by step, remove the rubble, give back your jewels the lost shine.
“All of you are truly beautiful, but you do not even know it. If you understand how beautiful you are, then from that moment on you will be forever happy.”
This is true. All that you need is already within you, in your heart, in your soul. It lies there unnecessary, unclaimed and forgotten by everyone. And while you are chasing mirages of external “happiness”, your true gifts are covered with dust. While you are catering to everyone around you, you, as the most important person in your life is neglected and forgotten.
While you are trying to change reality, having no opportunity to influence it, you are missing the most important chance to change your life. Change your own heart. Only such changes can provoke external changes around you.
Pay attention to yourself! Remember your original spiritual nature, our souls are eternal, and they are always young, beautiful, full of knowledge and true happiness, which is constantly increasing.
The soul is the only thing that we take with us, after leaving this world. Because we are souls. All that we need is already within us. You have to remember this.
(Author: Olga Valyaeva)
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