It doesn't matter what it may be: feelings, relationships, something material. If this does not belong to you anymore, then you need to learn to let it go.
If something makes you stagnate or gets you stuck in a hopeless situation, if something only brings harm and suffering, then do yourself a favor and have the courage to let it go.
It could be a relationship that you've been holding on to for a long time. It doesn't matter how right or wrong these people were. The main thing is that it makes no sense to keep them in your life. Subconsciously, you understand this, but still, you are trying to revive them. Perhaps you are just scared and do not want to face the future. What if you no longer have anything in common with this person this? Or maybe it's just convenient for you to be in this position, and this is why you are holding on? Because everything is familiar to you. And so you continue to wage a pointless struggle with your own fears that come from a failed relationship.
Or maybe you have just convinced yourself that it should be so? You are used to smiling at everyone around you, pretending that your eyes are shining with happiness. And you just can't stop. Because you do not know what to do next, how to change the situation, how to force yourself to take an important step.
Maybe you have become so used to the feeling of pain and suffering that you simply put up with everything that happens and doom yourself to such an existence. In fact, you just forgot what it means to be happy.
If something doesn't serve or belong to you, let it go.
Especially if it blocks your ability to reach your full potential. Yes, it can be painful and not so fast. But the main thing is to decide and start doing it. Once the right amount of time has passed, you will begin to feel relieved. And then you will look at the world with different eyes.
You will be curious: you will look back in order to understand what happened after all. Why haven't you noticed the happy life around you before, because it was there all the time! And only now you will understand that there is nothing to worry about, that bad things are behind you and the further depends only on you.
"To let go of people who no longer need, or want to be in your life is to honor your Self and surrender to the natural flow of life. You let go of someone not because you no longer care; not because you no longer need and want them in your life. But because you understand that they will be happier someplace else. You will be happy someplace else."
We tend to accept exclusively what life gives us: be it something good or bad. You may not be able to control it, but you are able to react in your own way to what is happening.
Remember one simple saying: "If life throws you a few lemons, it's time to make some lemonade for yourself."
Yes, some situations can drag you down or hurt you, but it's up to you whether it can break you down or make you stronger. Struggle is in our instincts - this is something that is known to us. We are able to overcome any obstacles if we do not "clog" our minds with unnecessary emotions. So, even if you think that you do not have the strength for such a struggle, know that you do.
Believe in yourself, believe that you have enough strength to give up all that is superfluous. That you can cope with any difficult situation and pain. In fact, it helps you remember how resilient you were at that moment.
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