Certain things will become clear to you when you fall, when you experience a failure. Some people will run to you and offer you their help. They will help you rise again, they will comfort you and show their empathy.
Others will only pass you by. Although you know them, although you thought they were even your friends. Still they will just pass by. â
There are still those who will try to kick you while you are lying down. These are the bad ones. These may also be so-called friends. And there is another category of people: those who will come and blame you for falling. You thought the wrong way, you should have done things differently! They may want to see you getting up, but they way of showing it during your most difficult period will not be of any help to you. It will only make things more difficult.
This is all normal in life. The saddest thing is not that you were left behind by those you thought were the caring ones or that you were beaten by the bad ones. The fact that those whom you thought were close to you, your friends, loved ones, turned out to be somebody else. People who are currently in your life reveal themselves during difficult times, that is when you will see their true colors and intentions. That is when you will know whom you are dealing with, whom you can rely on and whom you should no longer observe as the "caring one".
Everything will become clear to you after you have experienced a failure. It hurts to fall, but it will explain a lot to you. Those pink glasses through which you observed the world will simply fall off your face after you have experienced a failure. And it's not a good idea to try to get another pink glasses. It's better to learn the lesson, move on and find new friends among those who helped you get up.
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