Resistance is one of the key problems that causes all other problems. All troubles begin with resistance.
Jesus said, "Do not resist evil." Even evil should not be resisted, because resistance is the only evil, the only sin. When you resist something, you thereby separate yourself from the whole. You are trying to become an island, separate, disconnected. You make judgments, you call something wrong, bad, unacceptable. Resistance means you become the judge.
If you do not resist, there is no separation between you and the energy moving around you. Suddenly you become attuned with it - so much so that you find that you are not there, there is only the moving energy. Learn to collaborate with everything, no matter what happens; do not oppose the whole. Little by little you will begin to feel the huge wave of new energy that comes when you keep up with the whole - because in resistance you dissipate the energy. In non-resistance, you absorb energy.
This is the core of eastern worldview: accept and do not resist, surrender and do not fight. Do not try to be a winner, do not try to be the first in anything. Lao Tzu said: "No one can defeat me because I have accepted my defeat and do not strive for victory." Is it possible to defeat a person who does not want victory? Is it possible to humiliate a person deprived of vanity? Is it possible to kill a person who is ready to die? It is impossible. By surrendering, a person ultimately wins. Look deeply inside and understand the point: do not waste time on resistance.
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