You are not "too much". You were never much. You will never be many.
This idea alone is absurd. Because you were born to be yourself. We all were. Without the slightest exception.
All of you came to this world to be the most throbbing-bleeding-loving-crying-feeling creatures.
If anyone tells you that you are "too much", then here is the only truth that you need to remember: it is highly probable that these people, neither now, nor ever in their lives, will be enough for you.
Because you, my friend, you are the sun and the moon and the stars. You are the force that controls the ebb and flow. You are the uncontrollable howl at the full moon. You are the essence of ecstatic dance. You are heat and sex, and sweat and fire, and softness and courage, and bliss and an ocean of tears.
You are in everything.
You are the mother of us all and the daughter of the universe.
You walk through shadows and light.
You burn out and are reborn again, keeping your finger on the pulse of the world.
You make the gods tremble.
And this, my dear, is the border that you cross and many people become insanely uncomfortable because of this. It makes them jump and push you away. Because the way you dance with your shadow and your unshakable acceptance of your brightness makes them come into contact with an extraordinary space that delights and terrifies them at the same time. Your mere existence makes them take a step into a place they are not ready to see.
Because as the depths of the ocean call you home, you will never be at ease.
But darling, you didn't come to this world to be simple. You are here for so much more.
Because you are a boundary trespasser.
You are a seeker of truth.
You are temptation and heat.
You are a mirror and a sorceress, and within you there is the whirlpool of the power of millennia.
So no, you are not simple.
But in all this truth, please don't think that you don't deserve deep inner lightness. Do not let them convince you for a minute that you will never find a lover who will demand that you be something you are not, or belittle yourself, who will calm the storm inside yourself or suppress your extravagant love.
Because this, my girl, is complete nonsense.
Someday you will meet a person who will never think to call you "too much". Someone who expresses himself just like you, through poetry, in candle wax and in stardust. Who in the same way runs out at night to howl at the moon, who collects bones, chants mantras and talks with ancestors. And this love, when you find - him or her - will see you and recognize you exactly as you are and as you should be. And they will say "yes". Yes, to you: "Yes, I'll go there with you. I've been waiting for this."
But before that happens, I want you to do this. For me and every woman who thinks she is too much: Take all that is too much in you and canonize it. Collect all the embers of your too big broken heart and ignite the flames. And by this action you will call others to follow you, and you will sing a song that will bring us all home.
And then release into the world all that infinite and ideal, of which you have too much. And you go and love too much and cry too much and swear too much. Fall in love quickly and be sad too often, laugh too loudly, and you yourself determine the exact conditions necessary for your own existence.
Don't even think to live differently.
Because we need you. Each one of us, man or woman, who consider themselves too. You are our reminder in the most difficult moments that we are exactly what we should be.
Each one of us.
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