How Fate Takes Away From You People You No Longer Need

If a person is your destiny, he or she will remain with you under any circumstances. And when it is only you who make efforts in a relationship, it would be better to simply let go. Why do you need relationships in which you are not appreciated?

Do not treat all the partings in life as losses. Imagine that a person came into your life to fulfill a specific mission or purpose. He or she did what it was destined. And now it's time to let this person go. Let them live on. But without you. 

Why do we need partings?
Do not hold on to a person who compares you with someone and does not value you. Take care of those who really need you. When it comes to self-love and self-esteem, the manifestation of gentleness should be directed to you.
If someone leaves you, it does not mean that you have lost them. They have appeared in your life to fulfill their mission.

Get resolved and leave
An emotional connection is extremely important and, at the same time, it is a fragile thing. It should be protected and nurtured. But if you waste your strength to strengthen relationships with a person unworthy of all of this, let them leave. Let go of all the evil and heartless people who bring discomfort and disappointment into your existence.  
Get away from those who make you suffer.

Let go of those who do not appreciate you or see your merits and who constantly criticize you. Shake off the harmful effects of ill-wishers and idle gossip. Do not try to prove your value to anyone. The one who sees it without embellishment is your man.

It is necessary to be with those who bring comfort in difficult times, and to keep our distance from those who deliberately (and even inadvertently) harm you. 

So:

• Go away without hesitation from all those who cause you moral and material damage.
• Let go of everything that cannot be corrected and changed.
• Avoid pain, negativity, and betrayal. But do not forget that they exist in the world. 
• Keep your demons in the cage and control the inevitable inner fears.
• Remember that suffering is just a matter of choice.
• Do not deceive yourself and do not minimize the present situation with your toxic relationship only because of  fear of loneliness.
• Remember: it is only you who can set the rules of the game in your life.

Pain leaving the scars
​We all fall into pieces from time to time. We are all sometimes left without determination that underlies our “self". As a result, our mind suffers. There is no need to see any external manifestations. The processes taking place inside of us are invisible. And they can be dangerous. Because no one will come to our rescue, and no one will pull us out of this state.

Self-toxicity arises. We become toxic to ourselves:

• When we agree to obey the conditions of others without questioning them.
• When we lose our essence, stop thinking about our own desires and succumb to the persuasion of others.
• When we become chronic victims.
• When we depreciate our own thoughts, aspirations and achievements.
• When we cultivate a negative internal dialogue, minimizing communication with others.
• When we do not engage in objective introspection.

Of course, we are vulnerable to the possible betrayal and hypocrisy of the one whom we consider our friend, partner pr a close person. Because we believe we open our own heart to a worthy person. But, even if you were seriously hurt in a relationship, do not lose faith. Indeed, love and friendship do exist.