It's not a problem in you, it's in them. Do not lower your criteria and do whatever they want, in order to play their clown. At some point they will use you, it is in human nature.
When you give them one finger - they want to take your whole hand. In the end, you will not be appreciated, and everything you have done and gone through will be in vain.
If they don't value you, don't try prove yourself - just be who you are. Do not lower your dignity for the sake of trust, you will not receive it anyway. If they do not trust you - do not strive to prove and justify what you do and how you do it.
If they don't want to believe - they won't believe. They will use it for bad intentions. It's enough to stay true to yourself despite everything and see how things will change after a while. But don't expect change overnight.
If they don't value you, don't try prove yourself - just be who you are. Don't ask them for love if they don't love you. It will ruin your confidence and destroy your faith in people. Do not crawl in front of such people, do not allow them to bring only negativity in your life and presence. You should move away from such people as soon as possible and quit reflecting on desire to be a part of their life.
The right people will sooner or later discover your worth. When you find such people, hold them as a drop of water in your palm and ignore the others. You will not immediately notice the value of such people, but once you recognize them, do not let anyone distract you. When you become the best version of yourself, then people who will trust in you will appear in your life and you will have true adventure of living together. Then the life together will become what you have always wanted.
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