If somebody has hurt you, the best revenge you can take is taking care of yourself. Forget about wanting to balance things, forget about wanting to give them "a taste" of their bitter medicine, forget about wanting to make them regret the day he hurt you.
Let karma take care of it because I can assure you that it will, simply focus on becoming a better version of yourself.
Learn to forgive people who didn't care about you enough, learn to let your negative emotions or your anger push you to do something more productive, to replace that type of energy with something that does you really good. For example, do some physical exercise, a creative project, or simply try something new so that it distracts you from what is hurting you.
The best revenge is not to care about what people think; do not let their actions affect you, do not see yourself through the eyes of others, do not try to impress others and understand that they are not superior to you just because they have things that you do not have.
There is only one You and this should be enough for you and the people who really love you. There is only one You and you are your own project in which you will be stuck for the rest of your life. You will always be the only person qualified to work on this project. You are your own masterpiece and not everyone will like your art or appreciate it and you shouldn't expect it anyway, but it should never stop you from finishing and perfecting this masterpiece.
The best revenge is learning to let go rather than hold on to resentment. Letting go is truly liberating and shows that you have faith in God and the Universe. Sometimes when we don't feel good about ourselves, we cling to things that could sabotage our happiness or to people who don't love us or value us enough.
But when you learn to let go of the situations or people that make your life more difficult it will mean that you will have reached a healthy level of love because you are letting go even if you have no backup, even if you don't know what will happen next but you don't have fear. You feel like the universe is taking care of you, you are sure you have the skills to start over or find someone better. You learned to be strong, courageous and not afraid of what you don't know. You know you can handle anything that comes your way.
The best revenge is to love who you are now until you become the person you want to be. Love your imperfect being. Learn from your mistakes. Know that you are not defined by anyone or by your past. Love your everyday life in its ups and downs. Learning that anyone who couldn't love you was or is fighting his own battles. Believing that you are exactly where you need to be and focused on bringing out the best in life that has been given to you instead of hating yourself for not living the way you want.
The best revenge is learning to be happy and satisfied, even if there are people who are against you.
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