You need energy for something completely different - for happiness, joy and good people!
Why, next to some people, do we feel lucky in life, but next to others - we feel only negativity? What is the reason? There is actually no need to search for a reason for a long time - it is precisely all up to the quality of our environment. After all, we give each of these people a piece of our energy, and in essence - we give them ourselves.
The fact is that we recharge other people with energy, and it is good if we are talking about positive people - they help us succeed and become happy. And the bad and the vile ones only steal our energy, responding to our good deeds with envy and evil.
If you want to become truly happy person, you have to stop sharing your energy with toxic and evil people.
And the sooner you realize how destructive these people are for your well-being, the better. If you notice that they do not reveal all the best in you, but rather the darkest sides, it means these people are standing in your way and hindering your happiness. So - they should be immediately eliminated from your environment and life.
To be truly happy does not mean to be surrounded by a crowd of acquaintances and half-acquaintances all the time. This means being close to those who make you think differently, who always support and inspire you, who will not give up on you in difficult times.
If the people around you make you feel worthless, it will show up sooner or later. You will almost feel with all the "fibers" of your soul that something is off and bad, when you are close to negative people exchanging your energy with them. So escaping from such an environment is a matter of survival. You don’t have one more life left.
Unfortunately, negative people who steal your energy are not necessarily acquaintances, colleagues or friends. They can even be among family members and closest people. This makes it much more difficulty: since we trust them the most, we do not suspect anything bad until they cause significant harm to us.
So our task is to tear off the masks from people who feed on our energy and prevent us from living a full and happy life as soon as possible. And the sooner you do this, the more trouble you can avoid in the long run. But be careful and alert, because such people will try to do everything possible to pose as "innocent lambs" and continue to control you.
You should part with them without hesitation and doubt. Only when you free yourself from such a “friendship” can you become the person you always wanted to be.
This is your life, and you are responsible for it. And, therefore, you have every right to choose who can and should stay in it, and whom you should leave out of it.
Naturally, at first it will be awkward for you to say goodbye to certain people if you have spent a lot of time with them, but as soon as this is over, you will realize how correct your decision was. The fact is that no matter how decent, good, kind and full of good intentions you are, it is impossible to change a toxic person. This is a fact that you have to put up with.
Understand that if someone in your environment is constantly gossiping and talking badly about other people, then he will also speak badly about you behind your back. Pay attention to this point. Toxic people often disguise their true intentions, but here, as a rule, they can not restrain themselves from telling nasty things to someone.
If you notice such “inclinations”, prepare the way for “escape”. But keep in mind that some negative people are the real masters of their “business”, therefore they carefully monitor every word or gesture. They can be calculated in another way: to observe whether their words diverge from actions.
If it’s unbearable for you to be near someone, if you feel you’re just suffocating next to that person, there is good reasons why it is happening. Even if you still cannot fully understand the reason and blame yourself for everything. Do not think twice about throwing such a person out of your life without even explaining the reasons. Therefore, it is most reasonable to leave "elegantly" without wasting time on explanations.
If these people are not pathological abusers and narcissists, then with time they will understand why they lost you. By the way, it is possible that this experience will help them change their lifestyle, which is a good result. But anyway, this is not your problem.
Life is not for ever, and we must make the most of every moment, every day, while we are here on Earth. Do not let toxic people poison your life, do not let them steal your happiness and joy. Let them look for other "entertainments."
There are many good and kind people in this world. Share your energy with them, and they will respond to you with the same good energy.
It is not so difficult to be happy. When you know what you want, when you dream and realize your plan, when you don’t give up and only go forward, you automatically stop giving your energy to negative people. You need it for something completely different - for your own happiness, joy and good people!
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