You may not deserve what you are going through right now. And you need to learn how to let go in order to get what you really deserve.
Perhaps you are not where you planned to be right now. Maybe you wanted a completely different future and so far you have not been able to realize your dreams...But that's okay. Perhaps this is because God is trying to teach you that you should not evaluate your life by comparing it to the lives of other people. Perhaps the Almighty is simply trying to suggest that that is not a good idea - to live according to the expectations that others set for you.
Perhaps God is trying to tell you that not all of your dreams are truly yours. And now it's time to learn to distance yourself from such dreams, no matter how difficult it may be for you. It's time to realize that you have the ability to distance yourself from things that are not meant for you.
Perhaps this lesson is given to you so that you can redefine what things bring satisfaction to you, what is success and what makes you happy. Perhaps the time has come to discover new horizons of life.
Perhaps the reason for your loneliness is that you are still not ready for true love. You may first need to learn to love your closest people: family members and friends.
Perhaps God is trying to teach you to get satisfaction not from romantic, but from the most prosaic love - love for those around you. Perhaps you need to learn how to get satisfaction from self-love.
Perhaps God teaches you not seek confirmation from others. So that you understand that your happiness should not depend on the approval of other people. So that you become a more independent person whose life is not determined by whether you is in a relationship or not. Perhaps the Almighty wants you to live a freer life and get to know yourself better.
Perhaps God is still not finished teaching you the lessons you need to learn in order to create a truly successful relationship. He does not give you what you want, because he wants to teach you perseverance and strength. Perhaps He wants you to learn to deal with disappointments and failures, to overcome obstacles. He wants you to understand that life will not always go the way you wanted it to.
Perhaps God is trying to teach you not to take this life so seriously. Even if some doors are closed, this is not a reason to despair. Somewhere other doors have already opened for you. Perhaps God is trying to teach you to find positive sides and see a ray of hope in every situation.
Perhaps God is trying to teach you to be more resilient. So that you can master the ability to adapt, because life does not always give out the cards that you need. Perhaps some facets of your personality still need to be developed, and it is for this reason that you are not getting what you want.
Perhaps God keeps you waiting, because He wants you to learn how to let go. Maybe you do not deserve the things you desire at that moment. And you need to learn to give up what you want in order to get what you really deserve. Perhaps God is just teaching you to set priorities.
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