Some people simply cannot face truth, and a truly empathetic woman is embodiment of truth: she is direct, she is real, she expresses her love openly, without holding anything back while processing emotions at the deepest level possible.
And although some men immediately recognize such a women as the real treasures, most of them are simply afraid of these honest, open and strong women.
Over time, our culture has become more and more obsessed with the pursuit of happiness and instant pleasure and the people that make up modern society often see only what is right in front of them.
Superficiality and narrow-mindedness have long become practically the norm in the modern world, and most modern men won't bother to really look deep into the soul of their partner. They tend to be content with superficial and short-term affairs.
Although they may like the idea of real depth, which makes a huge difference in comparison to the superficiality and narrow-mindedness surrounding them all around, most of them are brought up in such a way that they almost on an instinctive level strive to get instant and short-lived pleasure, neglecting thus something that can last much longer and make them truly happy.
Female empaths (or at least those of them who are truly empathetic) have truly deep, complex and multifaceted souls - souls that can become a real ocean of love for their partners. But, unfortunately, some men are simply unable to cope with such wonderful souls, and here's why:
1. Female empaths take personal relationships very seriously
They are not interested in anything less than a real, deep and sincere relationship. Empaths don't like people who play violent or silly games with them, and they don't like half-heartedness. You either give all of you to the relationship with them, or this relationship will not last long. They will never deal with those who play with their hearts and feelings, and that is for a very good reason - they know very well that they themselves would never do this, i.e. would never play with someone's heart.
2. She asks questions. Many questions
Thanks to her empathy, a female empath notices in her man everything that his words or body language reveal, and when something from what is said is out of the ordinary, she does not hesitate to ask him questions - and not always convenient questions. Many narrow-minded and superficial men are annoyed by such behavior in women, especially when they are able to instantly recognize suspicious behavior, and with the help of two or three clear questions, find out what is being hidden from them.
3. She won't lie
Highly empathetic women feel the emotions of those around them at an incredibly deep level, and therefore recognizes truth and lies with almost uncanny accuracy. In other words, such a woman can sense a lie a mile away, and does not hesitate to directly tell the liar about it.
4. She sees through and through any half-truths and excuses
Her man may think that he has thoroughly thought out another excuse, smoothed out all the rough edges and closed all holes, but a truly empathetic woman will almost immediately understand what is really happening. She knows when her partner is not on the same "frequency" with her, and is not going to wait until he stops lying, playing around and dodging.
5. She knows perfectly well what - and whom - she wants
And if it turns out that you do not live up to her expectations, she will never stay in a situation that does not make her happy. She will never be content with less than what she wants and what she deserves. Yes, everything is really that simple.
6. She sees the best and the worst in the people around her
Although she wants to see only the best in the people around her, thanks to her empathy, she clearly sees their dark sides, too. And if her partner tries to hide some ugly aspects of his personality, a female empaths is quick to discover what is being hidden away from her.
7. She is independent and does not need anyone's support
Some men, for some reason, seem not to be attracted to truly strong and independent women who are able to take care of themselves, and who do not need a “strong man's shoulder” to feel happy. Female empaths are like that.
8. She has a seething energy
All her feelings are incredibly deep and rich, and thanks to this, she herself seems to others like a very deep, energetic, real and bright person - so bright that not everyone is able to withstand her light.
9. She never remains silent
When a man treats an empathetic woman worse than she deserves, she will never remain silent. She is not one of those who will allow her man to publicly humiliate her, making her look stupid or unbalanced. Naturally, those men who are used to treating women in this way do not like it.
10. She cannot be locked up "in a cage" or tamed
Although she loves passionately and fiercely, and is incredibly loyal, she can neither be tamed nor "locked in a cage". She will never let anyone control her.
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