A Tibetan wisdom says: "Other people are your reflection. You cannot love or hate what is in others unless it reflects your own qualities. You will get everything you want - you only need to choose an environment that will give you strength and energy to achieve your goal."
Your environment is you
What you love or hate in others is actually love and self-loathing. Does it sound like an abstraction? No meaningful words? Just look closely. It really is so. There is no sense in loving and hating others. They are reflectors. Reflectors of You.
It is worth taking a closer look at the people with whom you constantly communicate - there is nothing wrong with them, because they are your reflection.
Your attitude to others, and society in general will always be subjective and reflect what is inside of you. The only way out of this is to give up on labelling the people or relationships you make.
It is only verbally simple, but in reality ...
In fact, this is the only way we can perceive this world, because we have been taught this way. If a left-handed person is taught to write with his right hand, they will write with his right hand. Although he is left-handed. This is nonsense, but it is reality.
Imagine - we are all left-handed, but from childhood we were taught to write with the right hand. And we all write with our right hand, not because it’s more convenient, but because it’s so customary. You think it is impossible? It is absolutely possible and real.
Imagine that you are able to perceive the people around you without any specific attitude to them, without putting a label on anything or anybody. Think it is impossible? Why? Because you were taught that? Try to write with your left hand, maybe it's real. Try to perceive people without attitude, without the label “good” or “bad”. Only then you will have the opportunity to see the real person, not your reflection.
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