Being alone is not so scary, it is scary to stay trapped for life with the wrong person.
Being alone is not scary, not bad, it is not a curse or any similar nonsense that people come up with. Being alone is does not mean being lonely until you yourself decide so.
Being alone is better than agreeing to a series of bad dates and relationships, after which you will only hate yourself for waking up next to a guy who does not know your value. Being alone is a time to understand yourself, and this time is very important and precious.
Loneliness is so frightening to some people, although there is no reason for it, because it all depends on you whether it will be good or bad.
Stay alone until you find someone who doesn’t just say that he will be there, but who is really there and always happy to see you. Be alone until you find someone who does not find endless excuses for not seeing you, but really wants to spend time with you, to do what you want.
Stay alone until you find someone who talks about you to his friends, his family, colleagues, an occasional fellow travelers - literally everyone. Be alone until you find someone who is proud of you, because anything less is not worthy.
Stay on your own until you find someone who cannot wait to see you, but not because he wants to control you, but because he is worried and eager to see you.
Stay alone until you find someone who does not need to prove that you are worthy of love, who does not need to be persuaded to love you. The one whose attention you have to beg is not worth your time. If someone likes you, you will know it, otherwise it's time to let him go and focus on yourself.
Be alone until you find someone who misses you when you are not around, and not someone who forgets about you for the weekend, only until he gets drunk or gets bored. Be alone until you find someone who does care about how you feel. Be on your own until you find someone who does not disappear without warning and does not make you guess where he might be.
Stay alone until you find someone who is proud of you, who inspires you, who wants you to be better and wants to help you in becoming a better person. Be alone until you find someone who does not care about your complexes and improves your self-esteem. Be alone until you find someone who puts you in the first place, because you do not have time to be someone's choice, and not a priority.
Stay alone until you find someone who will really try his best for you. So many people agree to mediocre relationships with the wrong people - don't be one of them. Love is something you should never settle for less than you deserve.
Until then, stay alone. You will be thankful to yourself for making this choice.
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