When it comes to hope, there is only one thing that can be said for sure - hope a tricky thing. It can easily make you want more. False hope is misleading, breaking the connection with reality and then leading to a sad outcome. Later, you realize you were mistaken.
No need to spend hours at night drowning in memories or fantasizing about a happy future. You don't need to endlessly analyze your mistakes. You must understand that what is destined to happen, it will definitely happen. And not everything in life is within our control. This attitude can help you achieve something.
Hope can be dangerous. You attach importance to it when you feel intense uncertainty about your future. It takes time to shake off false hopes. Days will pass, and your messages will still not be read. You will be faced with the urge to pick up the phone to hear his/her voice. The moment will come when you will remember them again. You will have to visit special places that only both of you knew about. And you will go through waves of confused emotions that will make you doubt who you are without that particular person who meant so much to you. You can lose your goal and even get lost yourself. But this is all an inevitable process for moving forward.
Yes, this path will not be easy and smooth. We'll have to face sharp twits and turns. But, be aware that this will not last forever. All good things come to an end sooner or later. The same thing happens with bad things. Sooner or later they will lead you to the exit. And if you can "weather this storm", you will find that you will have to leave behind a false sense of hope.
Eventually, you will get to the point where all your hopes for a particular person disappear. And then you will return to reality. And all because hope can only satisfy you up to a certain point. Once you understand this, your "sleep" will be interrupted, and you will be back fully awake to reality.
You will find that there is no point in maintaining communication anymore. You will stop waiting for that random message or phone call. And you will come face to face with the truth - they will never return. That this person is your past. And that someone else will take their place, becoming your future.
This is normal. Because the new person can bring you happiness and help you heal. Just believe that the Universe has prepared a brighter and happier life for you. Believe in it, believe in yourself, and the right person will come into your life at the right time.
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