There are women who are very uncomfortable or even ashamed to ask their man for something. And no matter what this request is about - it can be his time, his attention, or a piece of an advice or even some kind of “material requests”.
But think about the fact that men do not hesitate to ask women to always cook tasty dishes, to be always well-groomed and in a good mood, and to give them pleasure in bed and they don’t think about that it also takes a lot of time, effort and money.
Some men are not even ashamed to ask for money, then, why should you be ashamed or uncomfortable?
A real man loves when his beloved woman asks for something
It is much easier for a women to be silent about her wishes, leaving her men to guess what she really wants, and then feel offended that he doesn’t guess at all (or guess wrongly), after which she gets angry with herself and with him.
Yes, having your own money to spend it on the things you want and being able to earn money on your own is, of course, a very important skill, but being able to ask your man for something is also important. Well, unless you ask, and your man does not hear you or simply ignores all your requests, then do not ask ... But this is a completely different story.
Men love it when their beloved woman asks for something. They love to make her happy. Men love to feel needed and take pride in the fact that they can make a woman truly happy and content!
He likes to please her and see her pleasure. The feminine “wishes” do real miracles with men and they are sometimes ready to simply turn mountains for this. Provided that it is a loving husband and he does it also for the sake of his loving and beloved woman.
But, of course, men also need to hear sincere words of gratitude from a woman and see her smile. It is very important that the man wants to do something for you.
Therefore, my dear women, give your man the opportunity to feel like your hero, ask him for something at least from time to time. Let him know and feel that you really need him and really just can't do something without him and his help.
And one more important point - learn to properly accept his help or gifts. Do not say: “Oh, it wasn’t necessary, I myself could ...” or “It is probably very expensive ... What do I owe you for this?” Why do you think that you cannot just sincerely thank the man, for example, for his help with something?
Do not immediately fall at his feet and lay a red carpet in font of him to because "he tried so hard and did so much for me!". Yes, he tried and did some nice things. But then it was a joy to him, too, and it brought him pleasure too.
Therefore, do not give up on what a man wants to do for you and the fact that he wants to see you happy and do not think that "they all need only one thing." Sometimes a man just does something for you wholeheartedly, simply because he is pleased to see you happy and he so shows his sincere feelings for you. Think about it. Good luck!
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