Life can be really challenging, forcing you to go through many ordeals. Anything can make a hell of your life: your job, your family, the people you thought were your friends, and even your romantic partner.
There are certain phases in life when bad people are around you and you start to hate every moment of it. What you should understand is - it will all pass! You are strong enough and you have gone through the worst.
People adapt to anything. This has made us the most prosperous species on the planet. It's okay to be angry, because sometimes anger is the generator of change. It can sometimes be used to release toxic energy and transform personality.
What you should also know is that only you can change your life. In order to become a truly happy person it is not enough to pay off all debts and move to another city. Happiness will not come “out of the blue” if you start a new relationship.
But you can start doing what you've always dreamed of. Society tends to tell us that our dreams are unattainable. It directs us to the well-trodden paths, which they call “safe”. However, you can choose a different path - take a risk and start changing your life. All you have to do is take a leap of faith.
You must love yourself without being dependent on anyone. And if you consistently put someone else first, you will end up without any love. Do not expect to receive the same amount of love from your partner you give them.
It is only you who determines your value and not other people. No one should judge you based on your status in your personal life. And you shouldn't do that either. Know that you are you, that is, a unique person.
Life difficulties can appear quite suddenly. You will encounter many bad things along the way: death, layoffs, breakups, and health problems. These cannot be controlled. You are not to blame for someone cheating on you. If your partner decided to end a relationship with you, don't blame yourself. Sometimes you just need to let go.
When tragedy strikes, we often begin to doubt ourselves; and it is normal. Learn the lessons and move on.
Admit that you are confused, but do not forget that you have enough strength to get out of any difficult situation and rise again.
Forgive people, and more importantly, forgive yourself. What you feel is emotion - human emotion. Emotions are quite natural. They make you human. Enjoy life in general and every aspect of it.
Don't let the dark periods in life change who you are.
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