If there is something that is really difficult to do, it is to understand when you need to get away from a person and turn a relationship with him into a pleasant memory, and not into a despised habit. The ability to say goodbye is not only the art of refusing to suffer, but also the ability to learn.
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The True Meaning Of Emotional Detachment And How It Makes You Free From Disappointments In Life5/1/2020
The detachment makes you free, giving you the opportunity to take control of your emotions and mind, and not vice versa. This form of freedom allows you to enjoy life without disappointment.
What is self love? Here is the most accurate definition I have come across. I draw attention to understanding, accepting and developing, and not to the mere comforting and satisfying of my feelings. Because stagnation leads to degradation. After all, the word stagnation implies 2 meanings - Strangulation of Will. So if you really love yourself, stop doing these things, or start doing others.
The best advice I ever got in my life was from a female artist much older than me. I was then twenty years old, I complained to her that I didn’t have time to be creative: I had three jobs, my life was so complicated, I lived with a bunch of neighbors, I had lots of things to do, I wanted to write and not get distracted, but I always seemed to lack time.
My mind tells me - in order for me to feel free and satisfied, something must happen - or I must change, become better, higher, cleaner, more successful.
It's not a problem in you, it's in them. Do not lower your criteria and do whatever they want, in order to play their clown. At some point they will use you, it is in human nature.
Try to understand and adopt this simple principle really, because much in your life depends on it. You don't have to justify yourself to anyone for the life you live, the people you surround yourself with and the plans for your future. It's your personal right.
Life begins only when you stop pleasing others, as you cannot even please yourself all the time. At first you think it will bring you something, you get used to it over time, but eventually you realize that you are just losing yourself in it.
You are strong when you realize that you do not want to express your frustration and dissatisfaction with someone else because you know that you will not achieve anything with it, and moreover, you will only miss many beautiful opportunities to live together.
The greatest freedom of all is when you realize you don't have to do anything. You do not have to prove yourself, you do not have to confirm that you are worthy, you do not have to convince others that you are right, that you are not afraid of what anyone will say, that you do not care what anyone will think of you.
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